Monsignor Jeffrey Alan Ingham, a beloved priest of the Diocese of Raleigh for 49 years, passed away on Monday, July 29, 2024. Known for his dedication to offering Mass and his love for the Eucharist, he battled cancer in his final days, and passed away surrounded by friends and fellow priests in prayer.
Monsignor Ingham, aged 76, was born on December 2, 1947, in Cleveland, Ohio to William Elmer Ingham and Ruth Catherine Krivanek. Growing up as an only child, he had a strong passion for music, particularly the piano, organ, and violin.
He pursued his studies at Borromeo Seminary and St. Mary Seminary in Ohio, graduating from Holy Trinity in Irving, Texas in 1975. Ordained on July 19, 1975, at St. Mary Church (now the Basilica of St. Mary) in Wilmington, North Carolina by Bishop F. Joseph Gossman, Monsignor Ingham's priestly service included roles at various parishes within the diocese. He served as Chancellor of the diocese from 1984 to 1988, was a member of the College of Consultors for multiple terms, as well as Dean of the Raleigh Deanery. In 2000-2001, Monsignor spent a sabbatical year serving as a chaplain of a Poor Clares Monastery in Lynton, England.
Awarded the title of monsignor around 2006, he later served at several parishes in Raleigh. Monsignor Ingham was known for his impactful homilies, often pausing to gesture towards the altar or cross to emphasize his message. He played a significant role in the development of several church projects, including Raleigh's Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral and an adoration chapel at Our Lady of Lourdes. Committed to St. Thomas More Academy in Raleigh, he served as a spiritual director and celebrated Mass for the students, gifting them prayer cards annually.
He cherished a quote attributed to St. John Henry Newman, expressing his hope for a peaceful end after a life of service.